Successful experience of a woman married,

 Successful experience of a woman married, very real, very reasonable, worth a good look
31 years old before I got married, and now doing great. Dive in the horizon for many years, saw a lot of tragic stories of sisters, their also experienced several paragraphs of very painful feelings. Now, their families and loved ones get along very well. I think I was still feeling some experience can give way to explore the sisters learn from them. I do not want to boast of what their own too well, but I think we need to learn from their mistakes grow, must not own a pit Yishuai fell a further fall. hope that these experiences and sisters in love and marriage in the lingua franca.
1. most girls still have to try to make yourself some good, from the capacity to face.
Taiwan's famous advertisements: the most beautiful woman seriously. Each person has the right to choose their own lifestyle, but it must be serious and to himself, work, for life, such women, if not natural beauty, but also the beauty of a calm self-confidence, and only time such a confrontation the United States can and also enjoy the type of man is good. play a man who lives will eventually play is playing.
may not work very well a lot of sisters who can get their own clean up clean and fresh, but also a great advantage. Anyway, the reality of man or the first easy to judge by appearances, not so the man love only the most beautiful woman, woman for the clean and fresh, most men have a favorable impression.
2. a good man, have their own requirements, the woman did not ask.
muddling along all their work, but There are many of their girlfriend asked the man, or kept at a distance better. such a man, marriage has become the highest probability of male poison tongue. We married sisters, at least be required to respect their husbands, that they have a right to his wife drink to the men call a good marriage is not.
3. married to see the main character, character.
similar personality, similar outlook on life, money, marriage and life view is the best protection. personality different, the two people do all Shuibu Lai, even if the world recognized as golden couple, born of a couple is not married, after all, most of the time of your life is to spend with him, and Lengnuanzizhi. < br> 4. the beginning that not good enough for your man and he will always be good enough for you.
some good girls, always ran into some men appear to share the potential, you him change themselves, to pay all, he said, you are too good for him, he's (education, money, ability, status, appearance, etc.) not good enough for you. I'm around a lot of examples of sisters, there is no self-confidence, can only give way to contact you by man, the future will not be good for you, your good will only make him more self-esteem.
5. entrusted lifetime ago, to see his family.
not see his family how much money is to see his house the family is not family harmony, concern for comity. a family of a man playing a woman, there is still indifferent, pretended family, and they will not control your life and death. Each a family has a drawback, to ask what your boyfriend's attitude, blind blind loyalty of the men, the heart of his wife's respect is limited.
6. of their manpower, manpower is also a man of his girlfriend is not fun. for their Shousong of a certain selfish girlfriend stingy man is the most unable to marry.
money is the best a man can see the essence and feeling things. sisters love is not about money, but if he makes you feel right on the money , he is not on the right think about you. In love, normal consumption should be, clear to AA meeting began by saying the man is too good at calculating, too afraid of a disadvantage. in the future of marriage , there are many people at the expense of local needs, such men will be the first run away.
7. hit man can not be, be sure to break up a fight. macho, man can not always maintain many candidates to and found that one must break up. the old saying, when to shut the anti-troubled.
8. love girls have their own bottom line.
must not for love of him to give up their dignity, insult their parents, abandon their work. good romance, marriage must be a win-win situation, rather than unilateral sacrifice and fulfill.
9. meet her like a man, must be brave chase.
unrequited love be the hardest, and most did not result.
10. have something to say so.
have any idea, say it, do not let men guess, to communicate, your life will be more happy. can not communicate that do not guarantee your happiness. I think his girlfriend did not mind a man is suppose to music. for this reason, lost a good man, really a pity.
11. Do not start to do in front of men virtuous state.
If you pay him peace of mind, they did not know return, he has suspected of machismo. If you are a long time, and my heart at ease, do no good as before, he would be injured, will feel You lied to him or you do not love him. not as good as a start, there is propriety of showing love, give him an opportunity to show, let him do something for you. tell the truth, what they pay men more profound impression. he more you do, pay more, he is the more you yearn, the less open. Instead, you pay, and he did not feel he was more access. in marriage, often do chores, and often take care of the children of men give up the possibility of marriage is much lower, it is precisely because the home is created by his hard, he could not bear to give up. a lot of efforts to reach the most cruel man has a virtuous, selfless woman devoted their. I finally determined to marry to her boyfriend, because he and I said: I worry about you, I always fear you live well, or come across, as long as one does not see you, I'm very worried about you. His dedication and I am grateful that we both get along the best model.
12. When the break is off.
all make mistakes possible, but if the same mistake again, that is, they have a problem. a lot of sisters because ; N years with him, the In short, there is no constant. This sentence directly led me to some bad feelings out. because I know that if you want to change that relationship will only get worse, then I will be more hurt by too. I courage is doing well I am now the most solid foundation.
13. for love and love, not for a wedding or a beautiful dream of life and love of luxury.
are required to pay the price of all happiness, But do not let some consideration ruin your life. young girls easily fooled by vanity, but in a real marriage, that can give you at night kicking off the quilt cover is a man worthy of the man entrusted his life. < br> 14. to cherish the true love you and good for you man.
good men will actually benefit you the way nice to you, you are not condoned, nor is bound you love your name. Such men rarely, if met, be sure to cherish. Young men are often the way with pure love of his girlfriend, he may mature, but his love is true, do not lightly give up. After many life experiences in the community , you will know how valuable a true.
15. all too late.
There are many good men in this world it is hard to find the other half. Not all men only love a virgin, nor is it all men would care about your previous marriage, but not all men care about your age, education. There are many good marriages, men love, is their own stupid woman, naive, and, and a round body, or mouth The sinking mole. you have received the injury, he will double and care, your courage, make him more respect. So, even if injured, but also the same as Kim Sam Soon, brave love, like not been hurt. First, you only open yourself, the world will let you go.
16. Do not start the pursuit of a man to pay his own heart.
good men and bad men in the pursuit of the beginning you will care about you , then you send you, give you a text message, take care of you when you are sick. not one was nice to you, you will immediately fall into the trap, think about, more than a look, make a decision. generally, four months sufficient contact, enough to make you understand him. online communication is not, and then not too long network of contacts, and real life makes sense. you have to eat with him, go shopping, do something together, to understand him. You have a good time, you know. In many cases, not a man to deceive us, is our own lying to yourself.
17. If you love him and accept him now, do not expect him to change. < br> If he can change, of course the best, or to think about, you can not accept it. drawback of every marriage, marriage will be amplified. He smoked, and you love him, just try to accept it, too few married men to quit smoking. The same is true of other shortcomings.
18.30 over the age of the men are living habits, lifestyle has been fixed, as a woman completely the possibility of change is not too large, and he needs you to adapt to him. Instead, the young men are more willing to change for the beloved woman.
this one is entirely my personal feelings may be wrong, please forgive me.
look back, after all the mistakes I have committed, the Fortunately, my nature is a this. I have written, some are corny, I can be true for every one is bitterly painful lesson to, I will tell my daughter, the mother of the child as a blessing